Meetu was around my age and was my best friend in school. Her father was the owner of a local restaurant in town.
We studied in same class and lived in same locality. We used to go to school together. And in school most of the times we sat and played together. We also used to visit each other house. Meetu used to keep her share of Misti Dahi for me; she also shared all those story books her father brought for her.
Our parents did not mind our meetings since we lived in same locality. After school, we used to meet in the evening.
En route to Meetu’s house, there was an area where a bunch of Bamboo tree had come. Opposite to that was a small mount where we used to sit and play till sunset. Meetu disliked the bamboo tree. I, too, did not like that much but I remained curious as that was surely a different type of tree.
To see Meetu happy, one evening, I took an axe and, hesitatingly though, chopped off the Bamboo tree. I waited for Meetu to come but she was getting late that evening.
I looked at the stems and leaves desiccating. I started feeling a little uncomfortable. I eventually felt guilty. I was no more, happy.
Meetu came. She saw me and what I had done. She did not speak anything and sat with me. I felt the void in that area and repented cutting the bamboo tree. Though Meetu did not like that tree but the absence brought even more uneasiness to her.
A week passed by. One day Meetu came running to my house and told that Bamboo tree has sprouted again. Both of us ran towards the tree; we saw the new leaves coming. We watered it. We felt happy doing that; that evening we sat on the mount till late.
I and Meetu knew that day that a wrong deed makes you uncomfortable and a good deed is what that makes you happy.
Friends, I have seen greed, aggression, indolence and indulgence in people around me. I guess we all have these basic problems (or weaknesses) in varying proportions. But what I notice is, a visible lack of confidence or ease when we get into such act (exclude psychopaths).
The issue is, these basic problems give birth to consequential problems in us and in ‘others’ as well. Perhaps this is why a thief says his poverty a reason for his act; and reason of poverty either be his own indolence or others greed and indulgence. Perhaps this is why a killer mentions his act as revenge; and the revenge because of others greed or aggression.
The worry is, people having consequential problems assign a reason to their wrong deed. And perhaps therefore they ‘do not’ lack confidence or feel uncomfortable like I felt when I cut the bamboo tree. They think what they are doing is justified. Perhaps therefore some terrorists appear so confident.
Thankfully, the laws of society and state have evolved to control and monitor such consequential problems. An honest execution and administration of law can curb them and this remains the primary responsibility of our leaders and public administrators.
After two decades, the bamboo tree is flowering these days. Meetu says the tree will die. She tells it’s an alarm bell. I too see an alarm bell ringing around all of us. We too, need to be alert. Alert of any misguidance coming from others and also of our own weaknesses.
15 comments:
hey manish sir,
that was a vivid post from memory... very nicely written and thought provoking...
But whenever the Bamboo tree is cut, it sprouts again,,,isnt that true?
Would its flowering end its very existence?
I like it! at least you know the things that made you happy or not.There are a lot of things that you don't like to do at first but it Indeed,when you like it, it will really make you happy that's really great! experience of mine.it is started since I was 12 years old I don't really like planting flower all I want is there beautiful and colorful flowers I always picking all the Flowers in the garden of my mother and that's a very bad thing happened that she really get mad at me...and a result of big thing that I don't want to do she told me to plant a flower, I was really tired to do it because I don't really feel to plant flowers but then months ago the flower that I planted sprouted and there's a few flower on it and I feel happy at that time that was a really big thing happened that made me happy.started at that time I always helping my mother to plant flowers and I really like them to see especially in the month of may,month of flowers as they said and I am free to bring Flower at the Church as an offer to Mama Mary the mother Of Jesus Christ (Flores De Mayo).
Lensky
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Lensky
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That Bamboo symbolises our spirit - the never say die spirit. We will spring back and those terrorists and extremists will have to mend their ways and come back to the mainstream.
Lovely post....as always!
you have the words of a writer. No really, i mean it. This should be in a children's story book somewhere.
This post, like your other posts, makes a point, but makes it as sweet as a dream sequence in a children's story. You read the post, you digest the point, and you are still smiling.
Your son must love the times when you scold him.
' ... people having consequential problems assign a reason to their wrong deed'
True.
All deeply religious people don't become terrorists, only those with a criminal bent of mind do.
I liked this post. And like Mampi says, the bamboo tree is going to sprout again whenever it is cut.
:)
@ Vinay - Thanks.
@ Mampi - Yes it sprouts again friend, but I did not know that when I was a kid. And Yes flowering of Bamboo tree means there is some serious problem with the tree.
@Lensky - So Many Thanks for your comments. Please keep sharing your views.
@Pinku - Beautiful point. I do agree. Thank you so much.
@HDWK - Thank you so much. I am happy you liked this one. Actually I have removed some of the paragraphs to keep this one short.
@IHM - You are right. Thank you much for your comments. Please keep sharing your views.
There's a lesson here for everyone.
A very thoughtful and intricate post
:)
Its like yin and yang all over again
:)
Hey Manish, yet another lovely post. I wonder how many such collections of memories do u posses...and more than anything, its wonderful, the way you are bringing them all out and relating it to things around us.. very nicely written...Keep it going...
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Thank you so much for your kind words. I am really happy you liked it.
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I loved the message..i wish we all can rise again like the bamboo tree...but the sad part is ,so willthe greed in people..
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